There are many nuances to feminization. There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to feminization fantasies and scenarios. In fact, there are probably as many nuances as there are feminization fetishists. Let’s take a look at a few feminization variations.
Crossdresser Feminization Nuances
There are many different nuances of feminization when it comes to crossdressers. That said, typically crossdressers tend to want to be passable as women, whatever their particular kinks are. They are quite in touch with their feminine side and identify as women when they are dressed.
Let’s take a look at just a few of the many crossdresser types:
The Passable Crossdresser: This type of crossdresser embraces femininity by trying to be as passable as possible. They want to look their absolute best and have the most feminine looks, feminine voice, and feminine mannerisms as possible. For them, when they are dressed, they identify as a woman.
Because they identify as women when they are dressed, they are attracted to men but do not see themselves as gay. They see themselves as straight women. Conversely, some passable crossdressers are not attracted to men, considering themselves lesbian crossdressers, as they prefer sex with women, even when they are dressed.
The Social Experiment Crossdresser: This type of crossdresser is what my friend Maureen identifies as. She is a biological male and has no desire to change that but she enjoys getting dressed up and looking as passable as possible. Once dressed, she enjoys going out in public and seeing the reactions of others. Many crossdressers are the same way.
For the social experiment crossdresser, it may be a sexual thing or it may not be. The biggest turn-on for this feminization type is watching people’s reaction to them.
The Drag Queen Crossdresser: This type of crossdresser loves to be larger than life. Over the top with hair, makeup, and outfits, they don”t seek to fit in but instead seek to stand out. Drag queens love the attention and notoriety. The more attention they receive, the better.
Most drag queens make careers out of it and perform on stage for others, many of them attempting to resemble famous women they idolize such as Madonna, Liza Minelli, etc..
The Lesbian Crossdresser: The lesbian crossdresser identifies as being a women when dressed and wants to be as passable as possible but when it comes to sex, they still prefer to be with women, even when dressed. Because they are “women” when dressed and they enjoy sexual fantasies or relationships with women, they call themselves lesbians.
Lesbian crossdressers get offended when the possibility of them being with men is presented to them because they have no desire at all to be with men, even when dressed.
Nuances of Feminization: The Sissy
Sissies are a breed all of their own as they know they aren’t “real” men and never could be considered a “real” man so they emphasize this fact by dressing in feminine clothes. Sissies know they could never be “real” women, either; instead not fitting in with either sex. They aren’t good enough to be “real” men or “real” women, making them a breed of their own.
Though they have this particular thing in common, there are many, many different types of sissies. Let’s take a look at just a few of the sissy types:
The Frilly Sissy: The frilly sissy enjoys dressing girlie in satiny fabrics with ruffles and lace. Frilly sissies enjoy things like rumba panties, frilly girlie dresses, ruffled ankle socks, patent leather Mary Jane shoes, ribbons, bows, bonnets, etc. Textures, colors, and girlie styles are what frilly sissies are drawn to.
The frilly sissy often identifies as a young girl and for them it’s more about the clothing and age regression than it is about sex. They don’t typically enjoy scenarios involving sex of any type; instead, preferring scenarios of shopping for frilly clothing or being dressed in various frilly outfits they model for others, etc.
The Humiliated Sissy: The humiliated sissy may be a frilly sissy or a sissy slut or one of any other types of sissies but the underlying theme is that they enjoy being humiliated for being the way they are. They like to be laughed at and made fun of for things from having a tiny clitty instead of a cock, being dressed in ridiculous outfits, the fact that they are not “real” men or “real” women.
Humiliated sissies love to be made to do humiliating things and to be laughed at and made fun of. Some humiliated sissies prefer sensual, nurturing humiliation while others love hardcore, mean humiliation. The overarching theme, no matter what humiliation style they enjoy is that they do, in fact, enjoy humiliation.
The Sissy Slut: The sissy slut is pretty much what it sounds like. Sissy sluts enjoy dressing in slutty clothes and want to look as slutty as possible while being used by “real” men as a fuck toy. For sissy sluts, the suttier they can dress, the sluttier they can act, the better.
Slutty sissies enjoy big cocks; the more, the better. There is nothing too slutty for these sissies. Many sissy sluts also being humiliated for being slutty and loving cocks.
What’s Your Feminization Type?
Do you enjoy feminization? What aspects of feminization do you enjoy? Can you identify with any of these nuances of feminization?
Do you have your own nuances of feminization that don’t fit with any of the types listed here? Perhaps you can see parts of yourself in many of the different feminization types.
Give me a call and let’s discuss and then have some kinky, naughty feminization fun together!
Until next time~
Your Intelligent Fantasies Feminization Mistress
Twirl twirllll twirllllll. Curtsey curtsey which one am I Ms Hunter? Giggles
Mmm…. the sweet sting of humiliation. The more humiliated you are, the more turned on you are. The more turned on you are, the more intense the humiliation. It’s a vicious cycle.
I think I fall into the sensual humiliated sissy category I didn’t realize this til one day at a barre class when one of the lady’s who commented on how cute my thong was that had evidently been showing throughout the class I was wearing leggings and she looked down at my crotch and said it’s ok we can tell why you wear them. I was so embarrassed but also more turned on than I think I’ve ever been all of the girls giggling while she pointed out my short comings was scary but also so freeing like I didn’t have to pretend to be a real man around them now that I know they all know. But I also know I could never be a real girl either but it’s nice to be treated like one.
Yes, life can certainly get in the way sometimes, but good that you’ve still found ways to enjoy being feminine even if you’re the only one who knows it.
Agreed… on all counts, Prissy. I can’t wait to do that call and remind you of your extreme shortcomings, among other things! š
Ms Hunter, such an interesting article youāve penned, describing various āgenresā, if you will of feminization. Seeing your various examples mentioned above, I canāt really pigeonhole my interests into one specific aspect. Letās say Iāve dipped a (painted) toe into many of the pools you list.
From the early stages of āCurious Georgetteā when one begins slipping into slips on the sly in youth, to finding oneās self on their knees (or backā¦.mmmm) at the behest of a stern Dominatrix, there are so many pies of feminization to stick your fingers in!
I enjoy playing dressup in private, Iāve been taken out in public en femme by Mistresses, Iāve modeled my wardrobe for several women at onceā¦.(as I wrote for your Naughty Friday Podcast a while back)ā¦..soooo humiliating, but exactly the point. Ive been made up and been pegged by a number of Dominatricesā¦so I donāt really fit into any pigeon holeā. More accurately over the years my feminization pursuits have resulted in things fitting in my hole!?
Recently, I have been so enamoured by the āSissyā slant of feminization. The soooo over the top exaggerated fashions are divineā¦(I was one click away from completing a purchase of the most adorable dress)
Lifestyle does keep me grounded sometimes! Thatās not to say I donāt have a few pairs of āextra gurlyā sissy panties to go along with my everyday frills. Those mundane Monday errands are more enjoyable whilst swishing about in silk n satin!
As always, Ms Hunter, a pleasure.
Thank you
Wonderful description of some of the varied cross dressing tastes and fetishes! Although some wouldnāt call it cross dressing I suppose. Comedian Eddie Izzard has been know to joke about the dresses he wears thats ā¦.. ātheyāre not womanās clothes theyāre mineā lol
But as you know ā¦ I would identify in the slutty sissy categoryā¦ with heaps of humiliation ā¦. Please! ?ā¦. And Iām sure you the know ( and will harshly remind me of ) my extremely āshortcomingsā and reasons why!
Iām sooooo Looking forward to that 2 Mistress call when it can be arranged!
Glad this helped you to think about where you might fit and identify! As with anything, feminization is a constant work in progress.
I fall into the Experiment Crossdresser / Humiliated Sissy category. I know I am not a Real Man but can never be a woman. I accept that Iām a Beta Male with a feminine side. Dressing up and pampering myself helps me feel more sexy. I enjoy being submissive and pleasing others. I am not straight but still figuring out where exactly I fall on the spectrum.
This is a great piece that makes us think about what we identify.