The statement “phone sex is more than just phone sex” may not make sense at first glance but when you really look at, it makes perfect sense.  You may be thinking, “How so, Mistress?” or you may be one of those who already knows exactly what that statement means and are nodding your head in agreement right now as you’re reading.

Either way, without further adieu, let’s dig right in with a reverse countdown and see what, exactly, is meant by the statement “phone sex is more than just phone sex.”

5. Phone Sex is Therapeutic

“Talking to you helps me so much more than therapy and it’s cheaper, too!” I’ve heard this line more times than I can count and I do believe it is true. I’m not discounting sessions with a trained therapist and/or psychiatrist at all. Those can be and have been very beneficial to many. I’m also not calling myself a therapist in any way, shape, or form.

What I am saying, is that sometimes, the anonymity provided by the telephone coupled with the fact that those of us who provide phone sex sessions are non-judgemental and provide a safe space to discuss and explore your kinks, fetishes, and fantasies with reassurance that you are not the only one who has these feelings and you are not a bad person because you feel the way you do or because you hide them from your significant other for fear of how they might react.

Being able to explore these feelings through phone sex helps relieve any frustration you may have and can help you have a better relationship with your significant other. In fact, I had a caller once tell me that phone sex saved his marriage!

4. Phone Sex is Reassuring

I cannot tell you how many times a caller has told me they were ashamed of their kink or that they were afraid they were the only one who feels the way they do. Many people don’t realize that they are not alone in their kinks and fetishes, that, in fact, more people have kinks and fetishes than don’t.

The problem is, kinky fantasies is not something that is talked about. Even many of those who are in real-life D/s relationships keep it behind closed doors for fear of judgement and reprisal. Exploring and indulging your kinks and fetishes via phone sex is reassuring because there is no fear of judgement or being discovered.

3. Phone Sex is About Connecting

There are all types of connections in this world. Physical, spiritual, and emotional connections are at the top of that list. Each one has its place and provides a piece of the puzzle that makes you whole. Physical connection is often the easiest and most common way of connecting. Spiritual connections are also fairly easy to facilitate, ofttimes ingrained from youth. Emotional connections are the most difficult and most neglected type of connection.

I’m not saying you don’t have emotional connections on the surface level but I’m willing to bet you don’t have a lot of deep emotional connections where you are free to share all of your deepest, darkest thoughts- not only without judgement, but with encouragement to embrace and explore them, Phone sex with the right person provides that oft-neglected piece of the puzzle.

Let’s face it; it is much easier to connect with someone when they aren’t face-to-face in the same room. Whether it’s via telephone or sexy texting, phone sex provides a bit of anonymity that makes it much easier to be brave and share things that you wouldn’t normally share with those who know you personally.

2. Phone Sex Can be Liberating

There is something liberating about being able to finally share and discuss all those pent-up feelings, fantasies, and frustrations and even act them out in a role play scenario. Being able to fulfill that deep need can help to make you whole and make you a better significant other because you don’t hold all the pent-up frustration from keeping your true desires hidden.

Ideally, it would be great if you could share this with your significant other but the reality is very few understand about kinks and fetishes and fantasy which makes them reluctant to want to explore them with you. Aside from facing their judgement, there is the fear of humiliation and abandonment that comes from their unwillingness to try to understand where you are coming from. Exploring your kinky desires  via phone sex is a good alternative when sharing them with your significant other just isn’t an option.

And, finally…

1. Phone Sex Relieves Stress

That’s right! Phone sex relieves stress. Masturbation relieves stress but there is an even bigger stress-relief component when you turn your masturbation and orgasms over to someone else. Not having to think about it or try to make yourself have self-control is a big weight off your shoulders. No need to feel guilty because you masturbated yet again when you should’ve been doing other things. Your Mistress controls all of that so you don’t have to think about it.

When you control your own masturbation routine, your orgasms aren’t nearly as exciting because your mind knows exactly what to expect so your orgasms aren’t as explosive or exciting as they are when your Mistress keeps you guessing until the last second as to whether you are allowed to have an orgasm, after a period of teasing and edging- and in some cases, gooning for hours or days on end until she finally allows you release. And when she finally does, wow, talk about all the stress just being washed away in an instant, allowing you to bask in the after glow and deep relaxation that can only come from a true, full-body orgasmic release!

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For those of you who know me and/or have been talking to me or following my blog and cock radio show for years, there probably isn’t a lot you don’t know about me, as I tend to be an open book. That said, this is something very few know about me: I cuckolded my boyfriend in college. I was a bit naive back then and didn’t realize it was really a thing that had a name until years later but yes, at one time, without even realizing it, I was a real-life Cuckoldress!

Until next time, pets~

Your Intelligent Phone Sex Mistress