You’ve finally realized your inner sissy desires and decided to act on them. You want to be a sissy but- where to begin? The feminization process does not happen overnight. It requires studiousness and obedience; completing all of your assignments in a timely manner and to the best of your ability.
As with anything in life, there will be times you question your sissy desires and wonder if you are on the correct path. You may even be tempted to neglect your feminization assignments from time to time, which is why it is so important for you to have a Sissy School Mistress in charge of your sissy transformation.
Your Sissy School Mistress will also help you discover your motivation for wanting to be a sissy along with all the nuances that go along with it. Once she knows these things, she will be able to map out an individualized feminization path to guide you through the sissification process.
What Drives Your Sissy Desires?
First and foremost, you must take an honest assessment of why you want to become a sissy. What is the driving force behind your sissy desires? It is very important to take some time to reflect on this and truly understand your motivation for wanting to be feminized. The motivation behind your desire to be a sissy isn’t always immediately evident yet knowing what drives your desire to be a sissy is a crucial part of your transformation.
There are as many reasons for wanting to be a sissy as there are sissies but almost all sissies fit into at least one (or more) general categories:
- the love of clothing and textures (frills, lace, silk, nylons, etc.)
- the need to be dominated and controlled by superior women (and/or men)
- servitude (sissy maid, running errands, bathing and pampering, etc.)
- humiliation (for not being a real man, for being a naughty sissy, etc.)
Additionally, it is important to understand whether you being a sissy fulfills your own desires or whether you are submissive and desire sissy servitude on one or more levels. The road to sissification looks quite different for each of these situations.
There are many facets to your sissy needs and desires and taking the time to recognize and understand your sissy motivation in the beginning will make for a much smoother sissy transformation process.
Appearance and Voice
One you know what motivates your desire to become a sissy, it is important to get to work right away on your sissy training. As mentioned previously, being a good sissy takes work. You cannot just throw on a wig and lipstick and expect to be considered a full-fledged sissy. A true sissy knows her feminization is a never-ending process and is always striving to be a better sissy today than she was yesterday.
A sissy’s appearance is a first impression; therefore, great care must be taken to look as feminine as she can be. As with anything pertaining to sissies, there are many facets to appearance; many of which are determined by the type of sissy you want to be. Some general appearance guidelines are:
Hair removal – A sissy should be free from all body hair. If that isn’t possible for whatever reason, she should at least have her legs, groin, and ass smooth and hairless at all times.
Skin care – A sissy should always have smooth, exfoliated and well-moisturized skin. Even if going completely hairless is not an option, there is NO EXCUSE for ignoring proper skin care.
Mani/pedi – A sissy should always have nicely manicured fingers and toes at all times. If it isn’t possible to use colored polish on the nails, at least buff them to a shine and/or use clear polish on them.
Makeup – A sissy should always, at minimum, be wearing a lightly tinted moisturizer with nude or pale pink lip balm, gloss or lipstick. There will always be occasions for full makeup so it is important to be sure you have everything you need to do a proper full sissy makeup routine, as well as learning the proper application techniques.
Along with appearance, a sissy’s voice rounds out first impressions so it is important to continuously work on achieving the best sissy voice possible.
It is all too common (and easy) for a sissy to decide there is no way the deep, booming voice she was born with can become feminine enough to make it worth working on but I am here to tell you that that is wrong way to look at it.
There are many vocal control techniques and other tasks that will aid in the voice feminization process. Your Mistress will know precisely which techniques will work best for you and assign corresponding tasks and deadlines.
Behavior modification
There are many facets to behavior modification throughout the sissificiation process, starting with a few basics like:
- Walking in high heels with a book on the head – Learning the proper walk is very important. You don’t want to look like John Wayne in heels. That is very unbecoming. Learning to walk in heels, looking ladylike while standing up straight takes a lot of practice but it can certainly be accomplished.
- Learning to sway the hips – Having the proper sway in your hips while you walk is not only important for looking your feminine best, it is an important part of flirting. Sometimes, a butt plug is used to aid in the training process.
- Maintaining proper eye contact – A sissy should know when to avert her eyes, looking down as a sign of her deference but she also needs to know when to maintain eye contact, and precisely how to do so.
- Feminine mannerisms – There are far too many to mention here, but suffice it to say, there will be many assignments surrounding changing your mannerisms.
- Language/word choices – This one should be a no-brainer. Obviously, men and women use completely different words to describe the same thing. It is important to learn all these differences so when in girly mode, you don’t make a word-choice faux pas.
Sex Integration (real or fantasy)
You and your sissy Mistress will need to determine whether you should be called a sissy gurl or a sissy boi. There are several facets to each one of these classifications, and though every sissy is unique, there are some generalization that will help determine where you fit in this classification category.
Along with determining whether you are a sissy gurl or a sissy boi, a determination needs to be made as to what to call that thing between your legs. Is it a clitty, a sissy stick, a teenie peenie, etc. What is the hole in your backside to be called? Is it an ass, a pussy, or something else?
All sissies should be good at oral servitude for their Mistress, regardless of their sexual preference. Aside from that, do you find yourself craving to be as girly as you can be, including pleasuring a man; or do you prefer pleasuring women, even in sissy mode?
Teaching Methods and Discipline
Just as every Mistress has her own teaching and disciplinarian style, every sissy has her way of learning and obedience level. That said, teaching and discipline are a very necessary part of the feminization process. Much can be said on this topic, but I’ll save that for Feminization: Teaching Styles and Discipline Methods.
You Want to be a Sissy- Now You Know What You Need to Do
Becoming a sissy is a process that requires total commitment and a lot of work. If, after reading all of this, you still have sissy desires, then you know what you need to do. Call Me today, and let’s get started on your sissification journey! You’ll also want to be a good sissy and purchase the Beginner Sissy Assignment Calendar.
Until next time~
Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress Hunter
Hunter! I am so happy you found me! I would adore to please you!
Roxanne
Oh please, let me be YOUR sissy! I want to be a very good, willing girl for you! Oh, please!
Your Sissy, Roxanne
Oh, Miss Hunter, I will truly try!
Your Sweet Little Gurl!, Roxanne
Hi Candi! I sent you an email so you should be able to reply. Looking forward to hearing from you! 🙂
Mistress i would luv to talk with you about long term training for 2021 but i could not ding your e-mail. If you could help me with that i would be thankful. Thank You Ma’am
Hello Roxanne… so glad you found me, too! Yes, a sissy gurl at heart! An obedient, sissy submissive.
Oh Mistress! I am so happy I found you! I so need to be trained to be a submissive, obedient Sissy! My life would then be ever so complete!
Your Roxanne, “A Sissy Gurl at Heart”
Hello, Candi! Yes, I do offer long-term sissy training. The programs are unique to each person and what they need but definitely a combination of all of those things are possible. Send me an email if you’d like to further discuss details.
Hi Mistress Hunter and thank You so much for the post! I was just curious if You offer any long term sissy training? If You do, could You possibly briefly explain how that would work (tasks, weekly phone councelling sessions). Just curious and very interested. Thank You so much!
Good to read this, Janae. Every dominant woman needs a submissive sissy maid to take care of all those chores that are beneath her!
I am a sissy. Love being feminine. I know this is a common dream but I wish to be a maid very badly. I get great relief performing housework. Having someone put me into a typical maid uniform and then given chores and task to complete is my hope. Working as a female and being expected to portray a devoted, well behaved, submissive little maid. Hope one day to find myself in this situation and no way out.
Sounds like the perfect situation! So glad you found your true self with her help and love how you’ve been progressing!
Sounds like you truly have the sissy desire, Roxanne. All you can do is try to be the best sissy you can be and be as submissive and thoughtful as you can be in your service to others.
I dream of being feminine, and having a mate who appreciates me in skirts, and make-up. I desire to be a gurl for a partner, and give him/her everything I can give. I so want to be loved, as a woman, and make a partner ever so happy and satisfied. Yes, I want to be a Woman, a sweet, cuddly, pretty being in skirts and dresses, always pretty and sweet for my mate. mcanoe84@yahoo.com
This has happened to me by my married friend-she had me buy women’s clothes/blouses/dresses/leggings/measured me in her old bras/put on makeup/lipstick/d cup breast forms/short bob wig and took pictures of me-she said I had perfect curves and look better this way especially when she played with my breast forms and wig. Also sat like a girl and has me walking in heels. With her doing this I’m her cuckold sissy as she’s helpful/accepting and supportive. We decided this is what’s best and needed for me as it’s who I am and become.
That’s what happens, you just can’t stop. Check out this post to help with your makeup: https://sissystylemagazine.com/sissy-skincare-makeup/
Love your site. I am new to this. started to secretly try on my wifes clothes, and I loved it. just felt right. so natural.i am now trying to learn makeup, and do have a desire to please a man. sometimes I cannot believe what is happening to me, but when I try to stop, I just can’t. I want to be the girl so bad. thanks for all the great info
Thank you!
What a delightful guide and
Honest insight always nice to get insight from such a strong women
Wow, Judy! It sounds like you’ve had quite a long road but am happy you’ve been able to figure things out and do all of this on your own. So happy you have a lot of fans and are finally enjoying the fruits of your labors.
As you know, Jizzelle, it’s never too late to start! So happy you are part of the LDW/Enchantrix Empire. Who knows, maybe you’ll be wearing the Wedding gown dawn the aisle sooner than you think! 🙂
Well gotten into a fight with a bully and then having to admit to being a sissy,at such young age in Jr High School, was quite a shock to the system, for I really was not into the whole lingo and didn’t know what that meant, my curiosity ran amok and I had to find out what that meant. So I did and then another factor entered into my imagination and curiosity took over again, which was what did it feel like to be a girl/woman, how was their world different than mine? So I started to explore those questions and found that women’s clothing was something entirely different and exciting and sexy. Well eventually I went out and bought my own clothes, and exploring my feminine side pretty exciting for my young blooded hormones.
Well I did have a good size wardrobe and have since purged at least three times. No more purges.
In conclusion, I even studied Women’s Studies at Humboldt State University, three different courses dealing sociology and psychology of women. The only man in the classes, they were not pleased with that, but I did all on my own.
Now at 60 yrs old and going on 61 this month, Judy has become a truly unique lady and has fans. I also ran a group project in Business Principles (Women in Management), I seem to know that women would eventually make into the management sphere and most of my working career have had women supervisors and we have gotten along real well.
Well that is Judy’s Beginning Journey into Sissydom.
Goddess Hunter:
I wish to thank you from the bottom.of little sissy heart ❤️ for this post. Yes, it is a consistent and lengthy task for a sissy to become like a natural woman ? which is or should be the goal for all us who decide to listen to our inner feminine voice. Looking back I can say that from my earliest memories I identified deep down with the thought that I felt more like a little girl than a boy but the real life situation did not allow that to happen for me. Therefore I got a later start than some others. Once I got old enough and I began living on my own I began on the road to being the submissive sissy that I am today but the process was oh so slow because of work and personal social pressures. However, I moved forward along my journey and ever since discovering LDW and the great ladies that work along side of you there (thank you Ms Alley) some years ago my progression began to take on a life of its own. I believe every sissy anywhere should read this post at as an early age as possible so thank you again goddess from all us sissies. I am now free to be as girly as possible even dreaming of one of my earliest desires when I tried on my mother’s wedding gown. Maybe someday (please god yes, yes, yes) I will have the opportunity to walk down the isle to my husband to be in my own ruffle and lace dress to say I do. Oh and thank you Ms Hunter for being such a great sister to talk to girlfriend and remember Mr. Hunter is only one man … LoL.
Submissive sissy,
Jizzelle
Yes it is a lot of work. Glad you realize that and are willing to put in the work knowing in the end it will be totally worth it!
It is a lot of work learning to be a proper sissy…..But so worth it! It is a long journey with many steps, but one i am committed to and to finding my permanent sissy voice. Thanks for the great post Mistress Hunter!