What is your motivation, cuckold?  What is behind your desire to be cuckolded? Cuckold motivation can range from inadequacy, to general submissiveness, to an innate desire to please, and many things in between.  There are as many variations on cuckolding as there are cuckold fantasies so what I am asking you today is, What motivates YOU, cuckold?  

Your Tiny Dick Doesn’t Measure Up

Though not always the case, this seems to be a common theme among cuckolds- they have a tiny dick. Your wife loves you as much as you love her but, unfortunately, you just don’t measure up when it comes to having the big cock she needs.  No matter how good you are with your tongue, it just can’t compare to being filled with a nice big, hard cock.  Dildos are nice and all but any woman can tell you that they certainly are not anything at all like the real thing.  

After a while, it becomes obvious you aren’t pleasing her the way she deserves to be pleased and the subject of cuckolding inevitably comes up.  Whether it is your idea or hers, the theme behind this particular motivation is that she deserves to be pleased sexually and since your less-than remarkable dick isn’t capable of pleasing her, she deserves big dicks that can please Her.

She is a Superior Goddess

She is on a pedestal- and for good reason.  She is really out of your league but for whatever reason decided to choose you. The problem is, she deserves the best in all things, including in the bedroom.  One man is likely not enough to keep up with her sexual appetite, even if he does have a decent-sized dick; therefore, if you want to keep her, you must allow her to get the pleasure she needs elsewhere.

She may get her pleasure elsewhere and just come home and tell you all about it, maybe while you’re pleasing her orally, maybe while you are naked and masturbating in front of Her, etc.  If you’re really lucky, she’ll let you watch in person- even better, let you get involved in the situation.  After all, anything to please your superior Goddess, right?

Her Pleasure is More Important than Your Own

Speaking of superior Goddess… if you really care about your wife or girlfriend, her pleasure should be more important than your own.  Your own pleasure should be directly related to Her pleasure.  Knowing that she is well-pleased is what should excite you.  Those who live the cuckold lifestyle already know this and have learned that Her pleasure is everything.

Sure, they get their own pleasure, but it is directly attached to Hers. Seeing her pleased sexually, knowing she has everything she needs- both sexually, and otherwise- totally excites them.  The only time their masturbation and orgasm becomes important is when they are masturbating for Her amusement and entertainment.

You Want His Dick for Yourself

It all starts innocently enough.  You want Her to be happy, to be sexually satisfied, and you know you don’t have the capability to do that so you told her you want her to sleep with other men- real men, with big dicks. You enjoy watching those big dicks pleasure her and then, almost before you even realize what happened, you find yourself craving his cock for yourself!

Suddenly, you are insanely curious what it would be like to wrap your lips around his big dick- even more so, you want to know what it would feel like to be fucked by it.  You start obsessing over it.  It becomes all you can think about.  And then you set out to get that thing you crave. For yourself.  You crave his cock as much – OR MORE- than She does!

So, Cuckold… Which is it?  One, a Combination of these, or All of Them?

Tell me, cuckold, what motivates YOU? Is it one or a combination of the reasons above?  Is it none of them?  Is it something else altogether?  I’d love to read and hear your thoughts about what motivates your cuckolding desires.

SexyTexting, Custom Erotic Audios, and Phone Sex Assignments 

This isn’t specifically about being a cuckold, but it is worth mentioning that in this unprecedented time of sheltering-at-home, it may be difficult to find alone time to place a phone sex call for fear of being overheard but that doesn’t mean you can’t get your kink on and enjoy time with your Sexy Mistress.

Sexy Texting is a great alternative to calls because we can type our sexy conversation instead of speaking aloud.  It is also possible, via Skype, to do an actual phone sex call where I do the talking and you can just type your responses. This allows for role-play and real-time interactions without the worry of being overheard.

Having a personalized erotic audio created just for you also allows you to be discreetly naughty whenever and wherever you feel like it. Just pop your headphones in and enjoy while no-one will be the wiser! Even better when you have the opportunity to lock yourself in a room for a few minutes to enjoy your favorite masturbation audio created by yours truly!

Another fun way to interact with Me during this time of sheltering-at-home is to purchase one or a combination of My phone sex assignments in the phone sex assignment store.  You can complete the assignments at your leisure and let me know how they go. These assignments range from calendars, to daily emails, weekly emails, cell phone text messages, and even Me controlling your sex toy via the internet!  

You can also check out my pre-recorded audios and ringtones for sale in the Enchantrix Audio store (there’s even an audio from me as part of a Pass the Penis erotic audio set) as well as listening to my Free erotic audios here on the audios page of my blog.

There are many alternatives to just calling in for phone sex and so many ways to enhance the phone Sex Calls you do make!  I encourage you to check them all out and enjoy having kinky naughty fun whenever and wherever you can!

Until next time, pets~

Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress