You likely read the title of this post and thought, “who is this strict, mean mistress she is talking about and what is she going to confess?”. Those of you who have had a taste of my strict, mean side know exactly who this strict, mean mistress is.

If you have only experienced my sensual mistress side, you may not know that I have a strict, mean side, as well. That said, it doesn’t mean that I am automatically going to turn into a strict, mean mistress with you- unless you want me to. [insert evil laughter here]

I Love being a Strict, Mean Mistress! Who Knew?

I have always been a dominant woman who knows what she wants but my natural tendencies have always been toward being a sensual mistress.  Though I tend to be sensual, I have always been firm in my expectations.

For example, you tell me you want to eat your own cum for me, I simply expect you to do it.  Even if it is your first time eating your cum, I expect you to do it because I have taken the time to come up with a cum eating plan that will work for you. If you do not follow-through with eating your cum, not only will I be disappointed with your empty promises, I will be pissed and not as nice the next time you call.

If this scene of telling me you want something and then not following through continues, little by little the strict, mean mistress side will come out until you finally follow through. I don’t care if you lose the urge to eat that cum after orgasm, I still expect you to follow through! If you never follow through you will continue to get the full brunt of my mean, strict side. This doesn’t just apply to cum eating, it applies to pretty much any fetish. Don’t believe me? I assure you, some of my callers are reading this right now thinking “she means what she says, she is a mean. strict mistress!”

Though I can be Strict and Mean, I Love being Sensual

I don’t want to scare off those of you who have only known my sensual side and who continue to enjoy the sensual mistress I am.  I am not, by nature, a strict, mean mistress though I have learned- quite by accident, really- that not only do I have a strict, mean side when necessary- but that I quite enjoy it when I know the submissive needs a strict mistress or if he tells me he’s looking for a mistress who can be quite strict, and even mean.

So, don’t let the fact that I am not only admitting that I have a strict, mean side but that I actually enjoy it, put you off. If you have been enjoying my sensual mistress side and do not wish to see my mean side, no problem! I will continue to be the same sensual mistress you have always known me to be. If, like a couple of my callers who had heard I have a strict, mean side, you decide you’d like to see that side of me, I can certainly do that but you must be prepared for whatever it is you get as a result!

I am a Happy Balance of Strict and Sensual

The truth I’ve come to learn about myself is that I really am a happy balance of sensual and strict.  I tend to be sensual in my voice and style but firm in my expectations. When I say expectations, I mean expectations that were set based on a mutual conversation between me and the submissive. Because these expectations were set mutually, if they are not followed or if it appears you aren’t going to follow through with my expectations, then the firm, strict voice comes out.

If that firm, strict voice is enough to get you back on track, then the sensual voice comes back. If you continue to stray from our agreed-upon actions, I can’t promise you the really strict, mean mistress will come out. Once the mean mistress comes out to play, don’t be surprised at just how mean and sadistic I can be!

There you have it, pets. I love being a strict, mean mistress almost as much as I love being a sensual, nurturing mistress!  The yin and yang of being a Femdom Mistress, as it were.

Until next time~

Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress