Such a simple question: Am I a cuckold? Yet, there is no simple answer. I suspect you already know that by now and that’s why you’re here. You may suspect your wife or girlfriend has been sleeping with other men. Maybe you know for a fact your hot wife has been deriving her sexual pleasure from men other than you. Then again, you could also be an unwitting cuckold and not even suspect or have a clue. If that’s the case, though, I doubt you’d be here, reading this post.
To Answer Your “Am I a Cuckold” Question, Let Me Ask a Few Questions
The cuckold fetish is very complex, with many nuances. In order to find the answer to your question, a few questions need to be asked and answered.
Q. What makes you suspect you are a cuckold in the first place?
If the answer to this is anything along the lines of “she is a lot wetter than she usually is and tastes a bit different,” “she’s dressing sexier than usual and ‘works late’ a lot” then chances are, she is cuckolding you- whether you realize it or not.
Q: Do you have a hot wife who loves flirting and receiving attention from other men?
This, in and of itself, isn’t necessarily a surefire way to tell if you are being cuckolded but this, along with all the other answers, may add up to the conclusion that you are a cuckold.
Q: Does she have a voracious sexual appetite that one man just can’t keep up with, no matter hard he tries?
Most women with a strong sexual appetite, when they commit to one man, try to make it work within the bounds of monogamy. The problem, though, is that you are JUST ONE MAN, and she may want sex several times a day. Even if you are well endowed, which I doubt, and have the willingness to fulfill her sexual needs, the body rarely cooperates- at least not in the long term.
Q: Do you have a tiny dick?
Just like above, sometimes women, if they are in love with a man and/or are in love with the lifestyle they can provide for her, will commit to a long-term, monogamous relationship thinking they can overlook your shortcoming. They have good intentions, but it’s only a matter of time before they realize they need a real cock, not a little small penis nub.
Q: Is she out of your league?
I will use the old adage here, “If it seems to good to be true, it probably is!” If you were amazed that a woman as hot and sexy as your wife was interested in an average Joe like you, then you should’ve seen red flags all over the place. Chances are, though, you were so smitten by her and so excited that someone so obviously out of your league would take an interest in you, you either didn’t see them or chose to ignore them.
If you’ve answered yes to two or more of these questions, then there is a pretty good chance you are a cuckold. You may think because she isn’t telling you about it or that you aren’t involved in any way, then you can’t be a cuckold. That isn’t the case, though. You can certainly be a cuckold and not know it- especially if others know about it and you don’t. That still makes you a cuckold, albeit an unwitting cuckold.
My Wife Has Sex With Other Men but I Don’t Watch or Get Turned on by it. Am I Still a Cuckold?
Some people think that a man must be aware of the fact that his hot wife is sleeping with other men and coming home with a cream pie-filled pussy or that a man isn’t considered a cuckold if he doesn’t get turned on by the fact that his wife is sleepig with other men but that isn’t the case. According to the Wikipedia Cuckold Definition, a cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife.
That said, most men who are being cuckolded end up enjoying the fact that their wife is sleeping with other men. They start out by sitting at home wondering where she is or if she is seeing another man and before they know it, they find themselves aroused by that thought. They start fantasizing about exactly who she might be with and what they might be doing together and the next thing they know, they’re masturbating and shooting a big load of hot, sticky cum all over the place.
What Makes a Man Go From Being Upset About His Cheating Wife to Experiencing Cuckold Compersion?
Compersion. That may not be a familiar term to you but it is definitely an important part of cuckolding. Compersion is the act of deriving your pleasure from knowing your spouse is deriving her own pleasure from somewhere other than you. To experience compersion, you must have a need to know your wife’s needs are being completely fulfilled and a willingness to accept the fact that you may not be able to fulfill those needs 100% of the time.
Accepting that she needs more than you can provide and being happy that is able to get her needs met, even if it is with someone else- or in some cases- especially if it is with someone else, is critical to experiencing cuckold compersion.
Are You a Cuckold?
Now that you’ve had a chance to ask and answer some difficult questions, you probably know the answer to this question. You may still unsure whether you are a cuckold or still have more questions about cuckolding and whether or not you are one.
If you have determined that you are a cuckold but aren’t sure how to proceed at this point, you have plenty of options. It really all depends on your unique situation.
You may wish, with every fiber of your being, that your wife would cuckold you but you can’t seem to get her to agree to it or you aren’t sure how to approach her about it.
I’d be happy to help you with these scenarios, answer any other questions you may have, or even role-play a few potential cuckold scenarios. Whatever the case, I’d love to hear from you and look forward to your call!
Until next time pets~
Intelligent Fantasies Mistress Hunter
Well, yes, I guess I do. She was not the only experience like this I had though maybe the most dramatic. I had numerous experiences of girls I was either around or liked who would mention or talk about how they liked “big guys”. It was always a little different but the theme was the same – they were drawn to or admired or loved guys who were better endowed. I would feel embarrassed inside myself but tried not to let on. In some ways I would often be “the friend”. Now I do fantasize about those girls having or being with the guys the wanted. It is very exciting for me to think about it. I also fantasize about doing other things for them – non sexual – like errands or favors. I guess as a way to be in their good graces or be needed in some way. Both things are exiting to me.
Wow, Owen! I do believe that that was definitely a form of cuckolding. It doesn’t have to necessarily be a wife or girlfriend. Do you find yourself drawn to the cuckolding fantasies now, as a result?
I believe I may have been “cuckolded” very early in life and before I had even heard of the term. I had a female friend who I was enamored with. She dated a lot of guys but I was more of a friend to her. She was way more confident and experienced than I was and she seemed to expect me to be available whenever she needed a friend but it stopped there. I felt as though I was the only guy she knew who was in this “category”. She would even sometimes do partial clothing changes right in front of me – change a top or change her jeans with me right in the room. I would be overwhelmed with desire but it seemed clear that I was “not allowed”. I asked another female about this “changing in front of me thing” and she said – she does not see you as a “sexual threat”. She made me do a lot of “girl things” with her – go shopping or go for ice cream or look at jewelry. It was always on her terms. She expected this of me. I was so thrilled to be near her that I’d do anything. She would also tell me about her boyfriends. This was both uncomfortable/embarrassing but also thrilling to me. It was like she was giving me a “little treat” by letting me hear about her men. I was thrilled though humiliated as I of course wished it was me who was “the man” but also felt grateful to her that she shared anything of it with me. Is this “cuckolding” – as I was never her husband or even boyfriend. I felt like more of a girlfriend almost.
Yes, Ms Hunter, we both realised long ago that you were/are way out of my league. And so, you divorced me and moved on from being the hot wife to being the hot and thoroughly liberated lady! I was demoted to being your houseboy with special responsibility for washing your underpants. And your Krav Maga and self-defence skills mean I have no choice but to do as I’m told instantly, or else!
I certainly have cuckolded you many times, Mr. Wimpy, including the scenario you mentioned! Cuckolding is one of the things I enjoy about being a dominant female! 🙂
Interesting post, Ms Hunter. I can testify that you’re an expert on the subject of cuckolding – after all, you’ve done it to me so many times when you’ve played the role of the hot wife in our scenarious! You will certainly remember the first such scenario under the title ‘Wet knickers at the tearoom’.