Masturbation. Everybody does it. And for good reason. It feels good and it is good for you– to a point. Self-pleasuring, if not careful, can quickly cross the line from being beneficial to being detrimental, both emotionally and physically.
The Positive Side of Masturbation
Some of the benefits of masturbation include:
— Sexual release when a partner is not readily available
Masturbation is the obvious choice for sexual release when not in a relationship, but even in a relationship, there are times when a partner is not readily available. Instead of letting frustration build to the point of causing tension in the relationship, masturbation can relieve that frustration and help prevent unnecessary arguments.
— Increasing stamina and prolonging ejaculation
For those who have difficulty maintaining an erection or have problems with ejaculating prematurely, regular masturbation and orgasm edging improves sexual performance. This benefits both parties in the relationship.
— Safe outlet for fantasy exploration
When coupled with phone sex or fantasy-based porn, masturbation can be a safe way to explore the kinkier side without all the risks associated with acting them out in real life. It is also a good outlet for exploring fantasies that do not interest both partners in the relationship.
The Negative Side of Masturbation
Some of the potential downfalls of masturbation are:
— Masturbation becoming preferable to sex a partner
There is nothing wrong with masturbating within the confines of a relationship, however; when masturbation becomes the preferable mode of sexual release, then it becomes detrimental to the relationship. If a willing partner is regularly turned away in favor of masturbation, the masturbation becomes a form of unfaithfulness.
If daily responsibilities are ignored in favor of masturbation or seem like nuisances that take time away from masturbating, a masturbation addiction exists. Chronic masturbation is not healthy emotionally or physically and needs to be dealt with.
The Masturbation Balancing Act
The key to a healthy sex life that includes masturbation is in maintaining the balance between masturbation and sex with a partner. A good phone sex Masturbatrix knows this and can help with achieving and keeping that balance.
Guided masturbation sessions and orgasm edging sessions are great ways to enjoy kinky fantasy exploration with a masturbation Mistress while also building stamina and endurance that translate into better sexual performance.
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If you have a problem with chronic masturbation, premature ejaculation, or maintaining erections, a Cock Control Mistress just may be what you need. With the right combination of stroking and edging assignments and orgasm control, any or all of these problems can be resolved.
There you have it, pets, a look at masturbation and when it crosses the line.
Until next time~
Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress, Hunter
Dear Mistress Hunter,
There are set assigned times, which are for the daily responsibilities of my employment and those tasks outside of work. Things do need to be completed in a timely manner. Then, there are other activities, which I need to do, such as enjoying outdoor activities and reading.
Typically, I have set times, which I allocate for the masturbation and other sexual activities, whether they are with my in-person mistresses or alone. As an example, I may schedule 1 or 2 hours of quality masturbation time a week, where I just concentrate on self pleasure, and I find myself applying many techniques, which Mistress Delia explains in her blog [She is wonderful!] This also means that I do NOT go outside of that hour, as enough is enough.
As far as relationships go, I am in the BDSM lifestyle, where a small group of dominant mistresses and submissive males meet for our monthly activities. I do enjoy masturbating in the presence of some of those women, and it is fun to do that with others.
Yes! I agree with your post on having that good balance. Thank you!
I know, bfla, imagine that. Masturbation is supposed to be put on the back burner, so to speak. Why would anybody want to do that? 😉
Wait. You mean I’m supposed to pay attention to work and daily responsibilities FIRST? Instead of masturbation? Darn, I missed the memo on that one. Lol. Oh you know me, had to find a joke. Very interesting post Hunter. I agree with everything here. As much fun as all that stroking is, if it becomes mundane and routine, where’s the fun or even benefit in that? And yes, a sexy guide such as yourself provides just the right balance. Personally, as much fun as guided masturbation is and while it provides some welcome relief on occasion at home, I can’t ever imagine it replacing the intimacy and excitement of a partner.