I believe the answer to that question is a resounding “YES!” Whether they’ve actually experimented with anal play or not, I believe it is something that every man has fantasized about at one point or another.
If you answered “No” to the question above, what was the reason for that answer? Is it because you don’t want to admit you’ve at least fantasized about it at one point or another or is it because you’ve tried it and didn’t like it?
If it is the latter, did you try it more than once? Did you make sure you were properly prepared?
Anal Play Requires Preparation
The thing about anal play is that it requires a bit of preparation and forethought. If you jump into anal play too hastily, not only will it not be enjoyable, but it is likely to be painful, as well. Nobody really wants that.
Here are some things that will help you have the best possible anal play masturbation experience:
- Make sure you are cleansed and empty.
- Use a lube made specifically for anal play.
- Don’t try engaging in anal play until after you are good and worked up sexually.
- Don’t be a size queen… start small and gradually work up to the larger sizes.
- Don’t try too much too fast.
Reasons to Try Anal Play
Anal play can really heighten your pleasure and make your orgasms more explosive. Who doesn’t want more explosive orgasms? Anal play is also a good way to enhance certain fantasies, such as coerced bi or being taken with a Femdom Mistress’ strapon.
Prostate milking is also an important way to relieve pressure and help keep your prostate healthy during long-term chasti
Recommended Anal Play Toys
Here are just a few anal play toys I recommend checking out. They range from beginner to expert:
- The Initiator – This is actually a set of three prostate massagers designed to take you from beginner to advanced.
- Renegade Vibrating Prostate Massager – Ideal for vibrating prostate massage
- Progasm Prostate Massager – this is the perfect little number for prostate milking prostate orgasms.
- Tantus Cowboy – no doubt about it, this one is for you ass masters and size queens. Do not attempt this one without having worked up to it first.
There you have it, pets. Reasons you should try anal play and a few toys to get you started.
Until next time~
Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress Hunter
Absolutely, Sucker J! I replied back to your email as to setting up a time and I look forward to training you using your new toys. 🙂
Hey Hunter ,
I just bought some new toys and want someone to train me for anal play and also improving on deep throat technique .. Do you think we could set something up. Would like help exploring and am very submissive .
Sucker J
I agree, Ms. Delia. A lot of men are surprised at just how intense even external prostate massage can be.
I agree, Ms. Cassandra. We’ll have to see if we can get our stroker slut with the program! I think it would be the perfect compliment to his current program!
Oh yes Ms Hunter, this anal topic is buzzing around the blogs like crazy this week. Remember the metronome call we did together last week? Why not employ the program with anal butt plug training. Take the recommended anal toys posted here and have the boy practice his kegels contracting and relaxing to the tempo. I’ll bet those sphincter muscles will get a good workout and he will thank you down the road!
Ms. Hunter,
I agree with what Kay Marie said for sure. I have not talked to a man who was not at lease a TEENSY bit curious about anal pleasure. Even those men who would never insert anything in their asses still have been interested by anal massage and external prostate massage.
I really like bfla’s suggestion for the jelly toy! I think I will have to find that one. 🙂 FUN!
Ms. Delia
Thank you Ms. Kay. It is true. I’ve learned to be patient and let them arrive at that decision when they are ready… with a little sexy coaxing here and there along the way, of course. I so love taking them with my strap-on, especially when they choose their own dildo from the drawer. Their choices never cease to amaze me! It is also true that many are afraid that liking anal play means they are gay. Liking anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation… wouldn’t you agree, Ms. Kay?
Good mention, bfla… the crystal jelly anal starter is also a very good starter. And, yes- I’ll bet you are looking forward to my strap-on sometime. I know I certainly am looking forward to some naughty strap-on play! 🙂
Ms.Hunter ~ I haven’t talked to a guy yet that hasn’t either openly admitted to enjoying anal play or didn’t eventually admit to wanting to try it. Sure, some fight it, are afraid of what wanting it so really means, but they all come around – no pun intended. lol You brilliantly laid it all out.
I had never thought about anal play until I started regularly calling here and read a sexy blog about it and started wondering how it felt, and the next thing I know I was exploring. It’s not an all-the-time thing; I have to be in a certain mood, but imagining a strong sensuous woman behind me, feeling her body and hands stimulate me, feeling thst penetration, is surprisingly exciting and stimulating.
You’re so right; it requires a lot of thought and building up, and especially for a novice such as me, an experienced mistress partner. I have been fortunate enough to have those. If you’re not used to it, no matter how willing, it can hurt. I am definitely not a size king or queen when it comes to that and there is no reason to be. A few inches gets the job done.
Have you tried/heard of the crystal jelly anal starter? It’s perfect for new anal play. Only about 5 inches, not thick, smooth, no huge head, and with good lube is a great and pleasant intro.
Looking forward to your strap on sometime. 🙂