Have you been fantasizing about being fucked with a strap-on but aren’t sure how to make that a reality? If so, these strap-on training tips are for you! Even if your strap-on session is a phone fantasy as you use a dildo on yourself, you still need to know how to prepare and what to expect.

Preparation is a Must When it Comes to Anal Play

Before you embark on a strap-on training session or any type of anal play, it is important to prepare for it ahead of time. Cleanliness and safety are first and foremost. Here are a few ways to ensure cleanliness and safety:

Eat More Fiber – If you aren’t “regular” and you know you’ll be engaging in anal play soon, you’ll want to start eating more fiber each day leading up to the session, for ease of elimination. In fact, even if you are “regular,” if anal play or strap-on training is going to be a regular part of your sex life, you should up your daily fiber intake and keep it there. There are all sorts of ways to increase your fiber both through diet and with supplements.  

Honestly, almost all of us could use more fiber in our diets for health reasons, whether or not we plan to do it in da butt. I personally prefer getting my fiber from my diet, so I eat lots of veggies and fruits- particularly apples and salads. Obviously, fiber isn’t an immediate solution to keeping cleaned out but its a regular maintenance necessity.

Ensuring Cleanliness – In addition to eating plenty of fiber regularly, it’s super important to keep things clean down there- especially if strap-on training or anal play is involved.  Obviously, regularly cleaning the area in the shower with soap and water is important. In fact, rather than strictly cleaning on the outside, perhaps poke a soapy finger (or two) inside. Be sure to rinse well so you don’t have soap irritation and itchiness later. If you aren’t able to shower immediately before engaging in anal play, be sure to clean the area with a wet, soapy washcloth or with sanitary wipes.

Going a little deeper (literally) when it comes to cleanliness, there are other options for cleaning out immediately before anal play. Squirting plain water inside, holding it for a few minutes, then releasing will also help with elimination and cleanliness. Make sure to wash any equipment used for this purpose (unless it is disposable) with soap and water immediately after use. It’s also important to clean yourself and any toys you have used in your anal session immediately after finishing.

LUBE, LUBE, LUBE, and MORE LUBE – I cannot stress this one, enough! Even if you are experienced when it comes to strap-on training and anal play, there is no such thing as too much lube! There are a bazillion types of lube available on the market, how do you know which type of lube to use? That’s a good question.  Every person is different so what works well for one may not work well for another so there is always a bit of trial and error in finding the best lube for your anal pleasure.

When it comes to sexual lubrication, there are three main categories- silicone-based, oil-based, and water-based.  There are plusses and minuses to each and a few general rules of thumb to remember.  Silicone-based lubes last the longest but should not be used with silicone toys. Oil-based lubes and butters are the thickest and often the best when it comes to anal play but they cannot be used with latex condoms.  Water-based lubes are the safest and can be used in all cases but they tend to absorb quicker and need reapplied more often.

Gradually Preparing for Strap-On Training

If you’ve not been penetrated anally before or if it has been a while since you were last penetrated, you’ll need to gradually prepare the sphincter to expand and accommodate the desired size dildo or strap-on.  This can be done in a variety of ways but the easiest and most popular way to prepare is to use a set of graduated sized butt plugs. Start slowly, first with a finger or two, then when ready, use lots of lube and insert the smallest plug.

If doing anal play on your own intimidates you, follow the instructions above for anal play preparation, make sure you have a set of graduated sized butt plugs- or a the very least, a small butt plug– just to get you started for your first strap-on training session, and give me a call. It’s much less intimidating when you have someone who is trained in anal play and strap-on training guiding you in your first anal play experience.

Beginner or expert, are you ready for a good hard strap-on pegging? Give me a call!

Until next time, pets~

Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress