Cross Dressing. Most of us get a certain image in our heads whenever we hear those words, but the truth is, there are many variations of cross dressing.
“He’s a crossdresser, so that means he’s gay.”
I wish I had a penny for every time I’ve heard that misnomer. The truth is, cross dressing has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. You can be a crossdresser, whether you are straight, bisexual, or gay. Crossdressing does not make you gay.
Many cross dressers consider themselves lesbians because even when dressed as a woman, they prefer women. I like to call them Lipstick Lesbians with a twist! Recently I had the chance to share a super HOT fantasy with a cross dressing lesbian caller.
Sexy Shopping
The night started with us going shopping together for sexy lingerie. I rented Victoria’s Secret after hours just for the occasion. All the clerks were there in the audience to watch as my sweet gurl modeled sexy, silky, and satiny body hugging slips with matching panties, garter belts, thigh highs, and heels. She was strutting her stuff down that store-aisle runway- as sassy and sexy as any super model I’ve ever seen!
After enjoying the fashion show, I purchased several lingerie items, selecting a super sexy purple body hugging slip trimmed with black lace, with matching panties, black garter belt, and lace-topped stockings, for my gurl to wear home underneath her LBD.
Hot and Steamy Sex
When we got back to my place, I couldn’t help but plant a kiss on those pretty pink lip gloss covered lips I’d been staring at all night. It didn’t stop there, though. Within minutes, our little black dresses had been stripped off, revealing our matching lingerie.
Instantly, we were in each others arms. Silky stocking covered legs intertwined with stocking covered legs. Panties sliding against panties. Lace-cupped satin slip sliding against lace-cupped satin slip. The “swoosh” sound the fabrics make as they come together. The intense arousal brought on by the feel of those soft and silky fabrics sliding together.
Within what seemed like minutes– though I know it had to be much longer than that– we were satiated.
Exhausted, we slid together and fell asleep dreaming about the next time.
Until next time, pets~
I started that way as a crossdresser. Lip stick lesbian I proclaimed proudly. But somehow women didn’t get with me and my feminization desires and porn attraction to Trans women caused an interest in cock so I sought out experienced on an isolated beach and became a cock sucker.
Oh Miss Hunter! This is exactly what I want, I just haven’t been able to articulate it. You wrote it so well. Quick, when can we talk?
Thank you, Jennifer! I am available most days between 11am and 4pm ET and can take appointments for calls outside that time frame. I look forward to talking with you!
Curtsey Empress Hunter.. Over the years I’ve read and researched about crossdressing. You Ma’am are very true, crossdressing doesn’t mean the person is gay, however, society does place that label. Crossdressers, those who identify or consider themselves a sissy, or even a transgender are who they are, doesn’t mean they are gay, society though labels them as gay or even that they have something wrong with them, when in fact there’s nothing wrong with them at all. Coincently, I had a very open and interesting conversation yesterday with a lady that has now done two full body waxes on me. One of the things she said to me was “you know when you wear women’s clothes, people will say your gay” I replied, yes that’s true, but doesn’t mean they are. She asked me if I liked men or women, I replied, “both” with a tilt towards women, but men are a possibility…
Thank you for your insight, steph. People are going to think whatever they want to think, but it is frustrating when the assumption is that if you cross dress you are gay.
Hi Mistress Hunter,
Oh wow what a great blog. I would love to be the cross dresser going shopping with you at a private Victoria’s Secret store. To try on all that sexy lingerie and model it for you and the salesgirls— what a turn on that would be!! And then just think to go home with you and find that you have on matching lingerie, would be absolutely wonderful. And then the high light of the evening to make love to you while dressed in sexy lingerie and heels. To feel our silky legs glide against each other and feel the slick satin on our bodies heating up as we move sliding together as we become one when we climax at the same time. Truely a fantasy of mine for a long time. Thanks for a great blog, I could picture and feel myself with you.
Hugs and Kisses
Tabitha
Thank you Tabitha! You know,in a recent post on her blog, Ms. Dallas wrote about skin, with millions of nerve endings sending signals to the brain based on the stimuli received. In a state of heightened awareness, just a whisper of a touch can send waves of pleasure throughout your entire body. If just a whisper of a touch can do that, imagine what the sensation of the heat produced from silky legs and satin-covered bodies gliding against each other will do! Mmmmm~ it’s getting very warm in here!
How right you are, Crossdressing / dressing preference and sexual preference, are two entirely different things. Although they can be tied together, they are completely independent.
This always makes me think of a friend of mine who is a happily married man with a wife who adores him. He loves to dress up and his wife loves it too. One of their favorite sexual activities is to go shopping together, they buy matching lingerie, stockings, heels, whatever they’re in the mood for, and then they go home, get dressed, and make love. Extrememly erotic and very hetrosexual.
That’s a very inspiring and erotic story, Ms. Christine. Thank you for sharing! ~ Mmmm, why is it always so warm in here? ~
Hello Hunter,
It would be so fun to rent our a lingerie store … but anyway, yes, I can testify to being an occasional cross dresser that is definitely not gay. Nothing against gays, but I’m just not one.
I never thought of myself as lesbian, but in a call with another domme she had me in lingerie and then told me that lucky for me, she was bisexual and then proceeded to tease me.
I found it highly erotic that she teased me as a bisexual domme teasing a submissive woman rather than as a domme teasing a submissive guy in panties. It was a new twist I had not yet experienced and I must say I really enjoyed it.
Hi Alice, I hadn’t thought of it that way before either, until talking with my friend Maureen, who is a cross dresser. I find it incredibly erotic!