Am I Alone • What’s wrong with me? • Why am I the only one that feels this way?
Am I alone? Ever find yourself asking those questions? If you answered yes, you are not alone. When people first realize they have a particular kink or fetish that strays from what the general population considers “the norm,” they are quick to assume that something must be wrong with them because nobody else feels that way.
Am I Alone? Born Branded
Truth is, they DO feel that way. It’s just that they’re afraid to talk about it. Because people might brand them as freaks. Call me a fool, but I believe those who speak out the loudest against people like you and me- those whose tastes tend to be outside the norm- are selling the drama all over you to cover up their own deeper perversions that nobody knows about!
Maybe it’s because I’m a Libra that I tend to be a little more open minded than most and it’s a rare occasion when I don’t see both sides to any given situation. Not that I agree with both sides, mind you, just that I can usually see behind the face ghost from which their opinion flows.
Take My Anthem and Overcome
Rather than sitting back to silently feel the quiet river rage or getting so angry that lightening crashes into a meltdown, my advice is to live by my simple creed: If it feels good and it isn’t hurting anybody else, then run to the water, embrace the ride, and sparkle like the sun!
The other day I had a little talk with Ms. Iris about how callers are sometimes afraid to share their dirty little secrets at first and sometimes will divulge them in stages. Sometimes they just need someone to listen, other times, they want to put themselves in the hands of a teacher to help them further explore their kink.
Therapeutic Phone Sex
Therapeutic phone sex . It seems a bit odd to put those three words together, but honestly, phone sex is about so much more than just calling for a little inspiration while rubbing one out. While there are times when that is the case, most of the time it’s as much about self exploration as it is about exploring a particular kink.
Just the process of discussing your fetish with another person who is understanding and non-judgmental can be a very freeing experience- like a ball and chain has been lifted. If you are reading this and have been lurking around Enchantrix Empire for a while soaking up all the information you can get but have been afraid to call, maybe this will give you the courage to take that first step.
• You are NOT alone. • You are NOT the only one who feels this way. • You are NOT weird or crazy because you feel the way you do.
If you’re ready, pick up the phone and take that first step toward embracing your individuality, whatever that entails. If you would like to talk with me and the indicator at the top right of this post shows I am available, then you can call 800-601-6975 and ask for Hunter.
If you would like to speak with somebody but are a bit unsure who might be the best match for you, then take advantage of our free live chat service and one of our amazing customer service specialists will help you find just the right match for you.
Until next time, pets~
Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress Hunter
Hi Empress Hunter,
At first I wondered if I was alone. The fact that I get to talk to you makes me feel better. I can see how it would be easy to feel alone when you have fetishes.
So true, tiny tim. I’m glad talking to me makes you feel better! I look forward to continuing to explore the reasons behind your submissiveness and what motivates you.
“I alone tempt you…”
You are hearing me say those words right now, aren’t you ed?
Thank you for this post! I remember that many years ago I wondered about my “strange” desires, which involved female domination and BDSM. First, I had to just be honest with myself, recognizing what my true sensual desires were. Next, I had to keep that to myself. Then, realizing that there were others who were like me, I decided to just cautiously seek some of the dominant women out. I wanted to be whipped; therefore, I sought those dominant women out that were into whips. In addition, I had fetishes for feet. In time I recognized that it was more important when women told be when to stroke my cock and when to cum. With “like-minded friends”, the BDSM became a lifestyle for me. I have acquired some other fetishes along the way, such as orgasm denial, and it became an important focus of my erotic submission to several dominant women. Importantly, all is based on mutual consent, and I am NOT being judged. When I discovered these LDW websites, I found it to be an important source of inspiration, and I shared some of this information on those sites with my mistresses. Thank you!
Thank you for your inspiring comment, cum_filled_balls! I think we have all felt that way at one time or another. First we feel afraid and alone, like something is wrong with us, then we eventually come to terms with it and accept it as part of who we are. It gets even better, when we can find a community like LDW and Enchantrix Empire where we can be with like-minded individuals that allow us to fully express ourselves without fear of judgement. It is a wonderful thing to have an outlet in the fantasy realm that facilitates this type of self-discovery. It is beneficial for those still discovering their kinks to experiment without repercussions until they discover exactly what lifestyle works for them, and especially for those who, for whatever reason, aren’t able to explore them in real life, but have come to terms with the fact that it is a part of who they are.
As a side note, if you’ve been reading my blog posts lately, you’ve probably realized that they’ve been inspired my titles of songs from particular bands. Anybody guess which band inspired this post?
Hi there Empress Hunter. That must mean you love bands. This one I don’t know.
I do love bands, tiny tim. All music, actually, but my favorite is classic rock and 80s metal.
I Alone and Run to the Water are the only two songs I know from Live but they did give it to me.
My two favorite Live songs are Selling the Drama and Turn My Head.
oooooooo I want commentluv on my blogs!
although I do have the strictly fantasy calls I would say that a large portion of my callers enjoy an ongoing relationship. My advice to them is that “*this**, what we share, is our own secret world. We each have our own private lives but together we share a level of intimacy that is unparalleled. I am their muse, their escape and their biggest supporter. Our relationship isn’t ordinary but extraordinary.
Very well said, Ms. Josephine.
Wonderful post Ms. Hunter, you are once again showing yourself to be the intelligent, intuitive and empathetic Mistress we’ve all come to admire. Therapeutic phone sex, three little words that together mean promise for those that need it, “excitement” for those ready for it and passion when they are ready for the deep end. Sparkle in the sun indeed!
Very well put, Ms. Layla. That’s one of the things I love about all the Mistresses here at LDW- intelligence, intuitiveness, and empathetic. Perhaps, I’ll just climb up on your couch for a few moments for a little “therapy” of my own! 😉
Our work is definitely a “service to the world” I have always been very open and up front with what I do as an ETE. Many of my friends, who would not have otherwise opened up to me, told me that being able to share their dark secrets and desires has been a relief to them. One in particular who is a a total macho male expressed his desire to be with a transsexual, a secret that he finally spoke about after keeping it hidden for 20 years because he felt something was wrong with him. Now he is happy and exploring his desires, and that is just one of the many friends I have who is living out their fantasy. I love the diversity of these friendships, and I love your blog post Hunter “Am I Alone” No one is alone here, and that is the beauty of being an LDW Mistress…Hugs Alex
Very inspiring story, Ms. Alexandria! Thank you for sharing.
This is a wonderful post, Hunter. I love your open mindedness! I’ve kept my own secret (that of being an Erotic Telephone Entertainer) for so long that it does feel good to finally express it to understanding souls. It’s why I love the SIsterhood of LDW so much. Kisses, Freda
Kisses right back to you Ms. Freda! I’m so glad we’ve all found a place to share our “dirty little secrets!” ~looks around~ ~whispers- not that I have any of my own, of course!~
I remember my night of nights when I just wanted to run away, thinking forever may not be long enough for me to figure out what is wrong with me. Many years of wondering if there was something wrong, then one day realizing that this is who I am.
I also agree with Ms Sonali it is wonderful having people like you to talk to.
We’re glad you’ve arrived Forrest (on both levels)!
Well put, Ms. Sonali.
Hunter-I love your post! I often feel like our roles as Erotic Entertainers is so much more than just “talking dirty”. I love when my callers want to build relationships that are deep and where we can talk about a variety of topics in a very transparent way. As you know, for many of them we offer a safe haven where they can discover their dark sides and they can let loose and confide their secrets to us. I love how you see your work as a “service to the world” because I feel very much the same way.
Sonali