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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Aug 2009 03:38:34 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi boys and <a href="http://www.sissyschool.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green"><b>gurls</b></font></a>!  There is so much to tell you about when it comes to the FREE events happening at LDW!
<p>First, on Saturday, August 15th, there will be TWO free <a href="http://www.phonesexpartyline.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green"><b>phone sex party line</b></font></a> events!   Anyone can call in for 10 to 30 minutes and there is absolutely NO COST!  This free event is brought to you by the <a href="http://www.cockcontrol.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green"><b>Mistresses of LDW</b></font></a>, to give you a chance to see just how great party line events can be!  Just call 800-730-7412 a few minutes before the event.</p>
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		<title>BDSM Barbie? You Decide.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Jul 2009 02:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Need an enchantress to stimulate your senses through provocative and intimate conversation? Call Empress Hunter at 800-356-6169.</p> <p>As I was strolling through my favorite megastore the other day, something caught my eye. At first I thought I was seeing things, but a closer look confirmed I wasn&#8217;t. There in the toy aisle, nestled among <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com/2009/07/bdsm-barbie/">BDSM Barbie? You Decide.</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>As I was strolling through my favorite megastore the other day, something caught my eye.  At first I thought I was seeing things, but a closer look confirmed I wasn&#8217;t.  There in the toy aisle, nestled among all the Bratz and other Barbie dolls, was <a href="http://www.dominationhell.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="darkmagenta">BDSM</font></a> Barbie! </p>
<p>A closer inspection of the package told me her name wasn&#8217;t BDSM Barbie at all; it was Black Canary Barbie- apparently named after a DC Comics heroine.  Hmmm, could have fooled me!  Not being a comics connoisseur, I had never heard of Black Canary and couldn&#8217;t tell you what she looked like, however; being a <a href="http://www.blackbookgirls.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="darkmagenta">Mistress</font></a>, I can tell you what a Dominatrix looks like, and Black Canary Barbie screams <a href="http://www.theblogmistress.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="darkmagenta">Dominatrix</font></a>. </p>
<p>I suppose I shouldn&#8217;t really be surprised- Barbie has always <a href="http://www.teasedtotheedge.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="darkmagenta">pushed the envelope</font></a> and been at the forefront of controversy. At the time Barbie was created in 1959, dolls were modeled after the typical view of women in that era, housewives, mothers, teachers, etc.  Barbie was the polar opposite- she had no family ties, was quite independent, and let&#8217;s face it- dressed a bit on the trashy side.  </p>
<p>Barbie has gone through many changes over the years, but remains independent and self-sufficient. Barbie has never been portrayed as a doll, but as a hip-young woman living life to the fullest.  And why wouldn&#8217;t she be- if you scale her to life size, her measurements would be 39-18-33!</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s face it, she does look HOT in that Dominatrix getup!</p>
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<p> Tune in tomorrow kiddies, for the <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="darkmagenta">blog</font></a> post titled  <b>&#8220;An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Doctor Away&#8221;</b>.</p>
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		<title>Fetishes and Paraphilias</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 08:02:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Need an enchantress to stimulate your senses through provocative and intimate conversation? Call Empress Hunter at 800-356-6169.</p> <p>As promised, today&#8217;s blog post is titled Fetishes and Paraphilias.</p> <p>Just about everybody has heard of bondage and submission, sadism and masochism and fetishism. What you may not know is that these behaviors are all part of <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com/2009/07/882/">Fetishes and Paraphilias</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>As promised, today&#8217;s <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com"><span style="color: crimson;">blog</span></a> post is titled <strong>Fetishes and Paraphilias</strong>.</p>
<p>Just about everybody has heard of bondage and submission, <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.naturalbornsadist.com"><span style="color: crimson;">sadism</span></a> and masochism and fetishism.  What you may not know is that these behaviors are all part of a perversion known as a paraphilia. Paraphilias include: compulsive sexual behavior (nymphomania and priapism), sadism, masochism, and <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.phonesexfetishgirl.com"><span style="color: crimson;">fetishism</span></a>.</p>
<p>Compuslive sexual behavior includes things like:</p>
<p>* Having multiple sexual partners or extramarital affairs<br />
* Having sex with anonymous partners or prostitutes<br />
* Avoiding emotional involvement in sexual relationships<br />
* Using commercial sexually explicit <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.voxerotic.com"><span style="color: crimson;">phone</span></a> and <span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: none;">Internet</span></span> services<br />
* Engaging in excessive <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.strokeforme.com"><span style="color: crimson;">masturbation</span></a><br />
* Frequently using pornographic materials<br />
* Engaging in masochistic or sadistic sex<br />
* Exposing yourself in public (exhibitionism)</p>
<p>Nymphomania refers to excessive sexual desire in females, while priapism is the manifestation of an abnormally persistant erection, whether sexual desire is present or not.</p>
<p>Sadism is the act of deriving sexual excitement from inflicting pain, suffering and <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.phonehumiliation.com"><span style="color: crimson;">humiliation</span></a>.  Masochism is the act of deriving sexual excitement for receiving pain, suffering and humiliation.</p>
<p>Fetishism is a fixation on an object or body part that is not normally sexual in nature, using the object of fixation to produce an <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.mayicum.com"><span style="color: crimson;">orgasm</span></a>.</p>
<p>Stilettos, stockings, leather, PVC, and undergarments are some of the more well known fetishes.  Here are a few fetishes you may <em>not</em> know about:</p>
<li>Formicophilia is the deriving of sexual pleasure by having insects crawl on the genitals.</li>
<li>Plushophilia is a sexual attraction to stuffed animals or people dressed as stuffed animals.</li>
<li>Vorarephilia is the arousal from being eaten, eating someone, or watching someone else eat someone.</li>
<li>Inflatophilia is an attraction to inflatables- dolls, toys, suits, etc.</li>
<li>Robot fetishism is the fantasy of having sex with a robot, having sex dressed as a Robot, or a person who transforms into a robot.</li>
<li>Burusera is the Japanese word for <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.femphone.com"><span style="color: crimson;">panty fetish</span></a>, involving wearing, sniffing or masturbating with panties.</li>
<li>Klismaphilia is the act of deriving sexual pleasure from an enema.</li>
<li>Hybristophilia, also known as Bonnie and Clyde syndrome, is sexual attraction to someone who has committed a brutal crime.</li>
<p>It is estimated that sixty percent of the population have some sort of fetish, though the ones listed above are fairly rare.</p>
<p>Well kiddos, that&#8217;s all for today.  Tune in for tomorrow&#8217;s <a style="text-decoration: none;" href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com"><span style="color: crimson;">blog</span></a> post, <strong>&#8220;BDSM Barbie&#8221;</strong>.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;">References</span><span style="font-size: xx-small;">Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research (MFMER). (2009). Compulsive sexual behavior.<br />
Retrieved July 13, 2009, from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/compulsive-sexual-behavior/<br />
DS00144/DSECTION=symptoms </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;">Medicine.net. (2009). Definition of paraphilia. Retrieved July 13, 2009,<br />
from http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=4767</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 13:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Need an enchantress to stimulate your senses through provocative and intimate conversation? Call Empress Hunter at 800-356-6169.</p> <p>As promised yesterday, today&#8217;s blog topic is &#8220;What Makes a Good Mistress?&#8221; Dominance and Submission play requires one who is willing to submit and one who is ready to exercise control. While it is true that not <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com/2009/07/what-makes-a-good-mistress/">What Makes a Good Mistress?</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>As promised yesterday, today&#8217;s <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green">blog</font></a> topic is &#8220;What Makes a Good Mistress?&#8221;  <a href="http://www.dominationhell.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green">Dominance and Submission</font></a> play requires one who is willing to submit and one who is ready to exercise control.  While it is true that not all <a href="http://www.dominationbootcamp.com/" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green">dominates</font></a> (dommes/doms) are women and not all submissives are men, for the purpose of this article, it shall be so.</p>
<p>According to the book <u>Fetish</u>, there are five basics that make a good <a href="http://www.theblogmistress.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="green">Mistress</font></a> (in no particular order):
<ol>The ability to empathize with the fantasies and desires of another while maintaining their own personality and limits</ol>
<ol>A good imagination and ability to think quickly</ol>
<ol>Good manners and etiquette</ol>
<ol>The ability to laugh at oneself</ol>
<ol>The ability to listen</ol>
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<p>Power exchange brings a responsibility that should not be taken lightly.  There is a fine line between maintaining control and keeping the sub happy.  This is the reason I ask you at the beginning of each call, what it is you enjoy about being a submissive.  When you are open and honest, telling me things you enjoy doing during dominance and submission play, we both will have a much more fulfilling experience.</p>
<p>  If, when I ask you that question, you merely say &#8220;Whatever you want me to do Mistress, I will do it&#8221;, then you are at the mercy of &#8220;MY&#8221; fantasies, which may or may not be the same as your own.  So, my dear subbies, unless you are *truly* prepared and happy to do *anything* I tell you to do, don&#8217;t give me that line!</p>
<p>  Nothing will put you on my bad side quicker, than to have you tell me you will do anything I tell you to do, only to have you say things like &#8220;No, I don&#8217;t do that&#8221;, &#8220;No, that&#8217;s not for me&#8221;, &#8220;No, I&#8217;m not into that&#8221;, once we are in the scene.  It&#8217;s not rocket science here, subbies&#8230;  I ask you that question <i>before</i> going into the scene FOR A REASON!!</p>
<p>Please keep that in mind, the next time I ask you what you enjoy.  Be open and honest about your likes and dislikes prior to the scene so we can keep the momentum going for a thrilling and enjoyable experience. </p>
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<p><font size="1"><center>Reference</center><br />
Bramwell, D. (2007). Fetish. New York: Quid Publishing</font></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[No matter how you define the specifics of being a sub, there are some basic rules of thumb to follow in order to get the most out of each experience. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com/2009/07/how-to-be-a-good-sub/">How to be a Good Sub</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>The definition of submissive, according to Merriam-Webster is:<br /> <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="brown">submitting to others</font></a>.
<p>Look up submit, as an intransitive verb, and here&#8217;s what you get:  &#8220;1 a: to yield oneself to the authority or will of another : <a href="http://www.themindmistress.com/" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="brown">surrender</font></a> b: to permit oneself to be subjected to something [...] 2: to defer to or consent to abide by the opinion or authority of another.&#8221;</p>
<p>As you can see, with such a broad definition, being a sub means different things to different people!  No matter how you define the specifics of being a sub, there are some basic rules of thumb to follow in order to get the most out of each experience.  Rules, as defined more specifically in the book <u>Fetish</u>:</p>
<ol>Understand that being a sub is <i>not</i> about being a victim, totally helpless and/or lazy.  It&#8217;s about your willingness to <a href="http://www.voxerotic.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="brown">serve another</font></a>, and your willingness to <a href="http://www.bodyworship101.com/" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="brown">worship</font></a> and <a href="http://www.pleaseyourmistress.com/" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="brown">please</font></a>.</ol>
<ol>A good sub always remembers the rules of the Mistress and does his best to uphold them, putting Her needs above his own.</ol>
<ol>A good sub expects nothing in return.  If his Mistress decides to indulge him, that&#8217;s fine; but he should not expect it to be a regular occurrence.</ol>
<ol>A good sub pays attention to detail, knows the likes and dislikes of his Mistress and is eager to please Her in <i>every</i> way, including showering her with gifts.</ol>
<ol>As the property of his Mistress, it is a sub&#8217;s duty to take care of himself, remaining &#8220;fit, strong, and well groomed.&#8221;</ol>
<ol>Never, never, never be a whiny, complaining sub, or try to tell your Mistress what to do.  If for some reason the sub is unhappy and wishes the scene to change, he should say &#8220;Mistress, I&#8217;m sorry to bother you, but&#8230;&#8221; and explain his wishes.  At which point, the Mistress may or may not grant his request.</ol>
<p>There you have it, subbies. Tune in for tomorrow&#8217;s <a href="http://www.intelligentfantasies.com" style="text-decoration: none;"><font color="brown">blog</font></a> post, &#8220;What makes a good Mistress?&#8221;
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<p><font size="1"><center>References</center><br />
Bramwell, D. (2007). Fetish. New York: Quid Publishing<br />
Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary. (2009). Definition: Submitting. Retrieved July 9, 2009, from<br /> &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;   http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/submit</p>
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