Feminization refers to the process of a man taking on more feminine characteristics. This could be through cross-dressing, actions and mannerisms, or both. Within the phone sex industry, there appears to be some overall confusion about the topic. Terms like sissy, crossdresser, and panty boy are often used interchangeably, though they are all quite different. Additionally, there seems to be a general consensus that if a man is a pantyboy, a sissy, or a cross dresser, he is also wants to suck cock, eat his cum, or be taken with a strap-on. While some want these things; others do not.
The aim of this post is to help clear up some of the common misconceptions where feminization is concerned.
PantyBoy
Simply put, the term “pantyboy” refers to a man who loves panties. Some pantyboys wear them- either on orders from their Mistress, because they love the feel of them, or because they love the way they make them feel. Other pantyboys love to sniff them, lick them, or masturbate with them after they have been worn.
Cross Dresser
The term “cross dresser” refers to a person who wears clothes made for the opposite sex. In this arena, it most often refers to men wearing women’s clothes. Some cross dressers simply enjoy wearing stockings and other sexy lingerie. Others enjoy going completely en femme, whether it is in the privacy of their own home or having a crossdressing girls night out.
Sissy
Sissies tend to be of a more submissive nature and while they love to be dressed up in frilly sissy clothes, they typically enjoy being humiliated for doing so. Many sissies love to perform songs or dances for their Mistress and her friends while they laugh at them. Some sissies love the thought of being made to service real men in front of their mistress, while others prefer to be made to service their Mistress and her female friends.
No two PantyBoys, Sissies, or Crossdressers are Alike
I’ve attempted to give a general description of pantyboys, crossdressers, and sissies, but the reality is that no two people are alike. There are also many different levels of crossdressing and many different sissy types- too many to describe in one post.
Sometimes pantyboys turn into crossdressers or sissies, other times they do not. The point is, the words pantyboy, sissy, and cross dresser are not interchangeable and do not automatically connotate a desire for cock sucking or strap-on play.
How do YOU define each of these terms?
Until next time, pets…
Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress Hunter
It’s okay. not just defined little boxes. A fluid spectrum, always changing. Like trying to herd cats through an ever-receding rainbow. Sometimes it is fun to stop in one of the little boxes for naughty fun, okay , I’m crazy for petticoats….Jennifer
I love being a girly sissy. Would love to have u pick out an outfit and panties for me to show u:)
That can certainly be arranged, Peter!
I soo want you to dress me as girl.
Well said, Ms. Harper!
I tend to think of PantyBoys as fellas who enjoy wearing panties, and only panties. They’re often straight, with a love for soft, satiny sensations. They’re in it for the feels.
Sissies like to dress up in ultra feminine clothes: ruffles, lace and silk galore! In pink! All the pink! Sissies adopt an over-the-top submissive femme persona, with soft voices, lisps and mannerisms of a missish coquette.
Crossdressers just love female clothes. A crossdresser tends to be more realistic in his/her portrayal of femininity, with an emphasis on the whole woman. They’ll go for good makeup tips, nice clothes, and tend to want to be my girlfriend or sometimes an emasculated lover.
You’re right, that all three types of feminized male are very distinct! I don’t even begin to think about sexual acts with anyone who tells me they like panties, until I find out more about exactly how they enjoy their panties. Under a suit? With ruffles? As part of a complete ensemble? and even then, I’ve had guys surprise me with what they’re interested in.
The clothes can make the man, but the panties tell you more about him. But more than just panties, asking the lover of ladies clothes what he’s interested in will get you a whole lot further along than hearing ‘panty’ and thinking ‘cocksucker!’ (mmm, hot bois in panties sucking cocks… I’m easily distracted, don’t mind me…)
I have to agree, Ms. Hannah. Naughty is good!
Thank you, teezedpurple. How can one *not* love the feel of silk and satin gliding over nether region?
Ms. Hunter this was well written. It’s a world were everyone and everything must be put into some standard category. As You have clearly communicated here, people are as individual as snow flakes. I love the feel of silk and satin rubbing against my man parts. I’m not a cross dresser but do fantasize about wrearing panties. I am not gay but have recently discovered the sensuous feelings in anal play. I love stroking my cock and get highly aroused when fantasizing about permenant chastity but know I would not really wish to be locked for ever. Just threatened with it. Basicaly, the human brain is truely the largest sex organ men and Woman have. Respectfully submitted by Ms. Tia’s edge pet, teezedpurple.
They are all so much fun and definitely vary – no two are alike. I was just speaking to a very naughty sissy slut that loves to be on her knees. Naughty naughty – I love naughty 🙂