Orgasm edging: keeping yourself right on the verge of cumming for long periods of time without actually cumming. Have you ever tried it? While it does require a bit of practice and getting to know your reactions to the different stages of masturbation, the rewards are great.
Ways to Stay on the Edge of Orgasm
It takes some self-control to get to the very edge of orgasm and back off because the closer you get to orgasm, the more natural it is to want to race toward that finish line. Part of learning to edge successfully is changing the way you look at masturbation and orgasm. Those who know how to edge will tell you that an amazing orgasm is only as good as the journey it takes to get there.
Slow down and pay attention to the sensation of each stroke. Switch it up. Use different stroking techniques than you are used to and vary the speed from slow to fast back to slow again. Take a short break with no touching at all.
Edging Your Way to the Best Orgasms Ever
Have your orgasms been less fulfilling over the years? Did you think that was just a result of getting older; that it happens to everybody? That is a myth. The reason orgasms become less powerful over the years is because when you masturbate the same way all the time, the body knows the routine and gives less of a reaction because it is familiar.
Switching things up with orgasm edging keeps the body guessing as to what is coming next and makes each masturbation experience more pleasurable and each orgasm more explosive than the last.
Edging Your Way to Becoming a Better Lover
Did you know that orgasm edging can help you become a better lover? Orgasm edging teaches you self-control and trains you to be able to recognize when you are on the verge of orgasm and how to stay close without going over the edge. Once you know how to stay on the edge for prolonged periods of time, you will be able to hold off your orgasm until after she’s had hers, no matter how long it takes. What woman wouldn’t be pleased with a man who can do that?
There are so many benefits to orgasm edging. I could go on and on about it, but the only way to really discover all the benefits orgasm edging has to offer is to try it yourself.
If you want to learn more about how to make the most of orgasm edging, check out 10 Ways to Stay on the Edge of Orgasm.
Until next time pets-
Your Intelligent Fantasies Mistress
Oh, I so agree with you Ms. Marilyn. Every man should learn to do this, not only for his own orgasmic pleasure, but for that of his partner!
Orgasm Edging is a delightful thing! I’m glad you mentioned how edging can prolong stamina in the bedroom- that’s one of my favorite things about it. Having a squirmy boytoy edging for me is great, but being a Fairy GodMistress and making sure the effects of his edging rub off on his sex life is a wonderful thing. Every Lady should have a man capable of that in her life! XOXO
I agree teezed… sensual and erotic is the best way to go!
Yes, bfla… practicing makes perfect!! 🙂
Yes Ms. Hunter the two do go together. The well-timed smile and soft spoken word can add such frustration to a situation. Some subbies get excited by an angry sounding, humiliating Mistress and that’s fine. I prefer the sensuous Mistress that empathizes with Her subby. Perhaps She cradles his head as he shudders from the nth edge. Perhaps She pouts and whispers/coos to him as She holds his face to Hers. “Shhhhhh, there there pet. I know, Mistress always knows. Calm down now, you know you can’t cum. Mistress is here, Mistress will help to keep you denied”. Now that is a nurturing response and when done on the heels of a very frustrating edge it can add even more frustration and heat. That’s just the way I roll.
I am a huge edging fan. I didn’t have any understanding at all of what it was or the stimulation it could bring until I got involved here, but boy I do now. And how glad I am. You are so right. Learning how to get close and then back off, getting right there and staying there without letting go, has incredible benefits. The sensations of actually doing that are wild, then there is pleasing the mistress you are with, enhancing delay and short term denial, and, well, the orgasm when I finally get it is incredible! Much more powerful and fulfilling. And you are right, it increases stamina and makes me a better lover. And who the heck doesn’t want that, right? So I am glad I learned and practice makes perfect, right? Here’s to practicing with you.
So true. Ms. Sirena. Edging is the perfect way to resolve problems with premature ejaculation.
Well said Ms Hunter! I absolutely love Edging…well for my naughty boys I mean lol. It really does teach them self-control especially for those guys who just want to jerk to get to the finish line. I always tell them the build-up or Edge and doing it over and over to get to that finish line is the fun journey and shouldn’t be rushed. I also find it helps with the boys who suffer from premature ejaculations.
Two years! That’s quite an accomplishment! You really *do* have cum_filled_balls! You are right though, there are lots of benefits for doing so.
Dear Mistress Hunter,
I am into orgasm denial, and my varied masturbation techniques involve lots of edging. I do this often while viewing porn. Yes! This does involve lots practice, and it can be done for hours at a time. By the way, my last orgasm was on January 15, 2012. This means that today is my 2-year anniversary, and I am so very delighted that I have chosen this lifestyle of guided masturbation, edging, and complete orgasm denial. I am reaping the benefits, including having my testicles loaded with cum! Thank you for this post!
Yes, the two go quite nicely together, teezedpurple. Teasing and tormenting you to keep you on the edge for long periods of time and just as you are begging for release, that cage is snapped back into place! A well-timed smile can say so much, can’t it?
What an excellent subject, Edging. Combine edging with chastity and there is a real great meal. Imagine being locked up for weeks then Mistress ties you up, removes the chastity tube, and proceeds to edge you over and over for hours. After your final edge, Mistress places a bag of frozen peas over your hard aching cock. Your begging does little good. Mistress jyst laughs as She locks that iced cock back into chastity. How many times will She do this before She allows you an orgasm? Surely this isnt the way your life will be from now on you ask. Mistress just smiles.